HELPING MEN TO CAPTAIN THEIR SHIP, WEATHER THEIR STORMS, AND MAINTAIN THEIR COURSE…NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS OR DOES.

If you’ve landed here, it’s likely because you’ve either lost your way, or have never truly known your way, or who you are. I get it. I made a mess of my marriage, family, and life for years. I lived through it to coach other men out of or through their own hell, or to avoid it altogether. I’m glad you’re here…

Meet Sam wender

I am first and foremost a believer and follower of Christ, a son of God (Yahweh), a prince of the High King, a husband, a father, and I am a Biblical Life Coach. I have been married for over 22 years to my beautiful bride, April. We have 8 children; 6 girls and 2 boys. Yes, we are busy. And yes, we know where children come from. But April and I have not always had the model marriage. Over the years, we’ve been separated twice and almost divorced. Our marriage was a living hell, but we made it through due in no small part to my learning to become the man that God created me to be, and then walking in it. And for the past several years, this is what I’ve coached other men to do as well. I’m not soft, but I am honest, direct, and real…and let’s face it, sometimes we need a stiff kick in the ass, which I know how to do when needed too. So, I’m not showing up with just a Biblical background, coaching certification, dozens of seminars and workshops attended, and a library of consumed books, but I’ve also been through it and back again. This has allowed me to show up with a degree of humility and knowledge, wisdom, experience, and skill sets, not trying to make other men to be like me, but to be like Christ…the fruit of which can be a new marriage with the same woman. 

WORKING WITH ME:

1-1 COACHING 

One hour with me, not anyone else, once a week for 3-6 months. 

GROUP COACHING

Two hours with me, and typically 5-10 other men, once a week for 3-6 months.

BOOKS TO CONSUME

On the topics of masculinity, leadership, identity, and anything else that is needed and helpful.

HOMEWORK

Relative to where you’re at and what you need. It could be journaling, having a conversation, going somewhere, doing something, etc.

ACCESS

My clients can text or message me 24/7. I don’t promise to get back to you right away, but I promise to get back to you. Sometimes a quick text and phone call can stop a downward spiral and create an upward direction again.

Struggling?

I’ll help you build the skills and mindsets to reorient yourself in a healthy and confident direction.

What my clients say...

Contact me

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